“If only he’d realize just how great we would be together,” I can hear her saying the words, can’t you?

Hasn’t every woman said these words?

Haven’t we all met a guy that brought so much to the table–or so we thought. He’s got the good looks, the great job, and of course, a dash of ambition. However, for all his pros, he has one enormous con: he does not want you.  Read more...

by Life’s Profylactic  Read more...

when we were younger, things were so different.  the people that we would accept into our lives then are very different than the people we would give access to now–at least i would hope so.  for the bois, it means going beyond the gyrl with the short skirt and the tiiiiiiiiight top and looking for someone real and authentic (with a tight top-ha!).  on the other hand, gyrls who once settled for ballers, thugs, and the cute guy you passed in the hallway in 6th period, have  replaced them with a list of attributes that we have  created based on our experiences with the bois we have been with and the men that we never should have.  Read more...

Being alone does not equate to loneliness…

This has become my creed if you will.

I feel it is important to spend some time getting to know me better…my needs, my wants, what makes me happy…what I bring to the table.

I feel that if I cannot spend time me, it will be hypocritical to expect someone else to want to be in my company.  Read more...

Do your friends (past and/or present) not get along with your significant other (past or present)?

Think about the reasons why they do not get along… then ask yourself…

Am I partially (or wholly) to blame?  Read more...